How To Approach Women

The single most important skill every man should have is knowing how to approach women, because if you don't know how to do this, you're going to be at a serious disadvantage when it comes to meeting your dream girl...

You have to know how to approach a girl in the right manner if you want to have success with your pickup. The following are some proven tips I'd recommend you do to help you be successful in meeting women!

Have you ever approached a girl with what you thought was the best pickup line ever, but she freaked out when you tapped her on the shoulder?

It wasn't anything you were about to say, or even your intentions. She might have really liked you if you approached her in a different way. But once you freak out a girl, it's not easy to turn that situation around.

The most important thing to remember when approaching women is to come off as NON-THREATENING and to not, under any circumstances, telegraph your interest in them too early.

This is known as "coming in under the radar."

It's the woman's reality that she constantly gets guys approaching her and trying to pick her up, so her natural inclination is to nip this in the bud quickly by outright REJECTING any man who seems interested in her.

Most men don't realize how annoying it can be for women to constantly be approached by guys who run the gamut from big time loser to big time creep. Because of this, women just don't want to deal with yet "another pick-up attempt."

Approaching women can be both easy AND fun when you know how to do it RIGHT.

So what's the right way to approach a woman?

First - YOU MUST ACT FAST.

If you hesitate and let the opportunity pass you by, you're never going to experience success. Giving yourself time to talk yourself out of approaching a girl will never get you anywhere, so it's important you act quickly and JUST DO IT.

Another tip - know what to say BEFORE you approach a woman! Meeting women becomes so much easier when you don't have to waste time thinking of what to say to her to start a conversation.

Having a good "pick up line" memorized for situations like these is always a good idea.

Now, when I use the term "pick up line," I don't mean the "Nice shirt, want to have sex?" type of line that'll get you slapped in the face. Remember, you need to be NON-THREATENING!

The best lines usually engage the girl in an innocent conversation. You can do so by asking her opinion on something and then following that up with more questions.

Another thing - when you are approaching women, don't charge in like you're going to war. Approach them from an angle. This is less confrontational and will subconsciously put the woman you are engaging more at ease.

Remember: great pick ups can only happen when the girl is comfortable with you. That's why it's so important for YOU to feel comfortable when you're talking to girls!

If you feel uncomfortable approaching women, the best way to build your comfort level is to go out and practice meeting as many women as you can until you GET comfortable with it!

Let me tell you - getting good at approaching women is not going to happen if all you do is read about it or study it! You actually have to DO it so you can build your level of experience. (Trust me, it gets easier the more you do it).

If you're afraid of rejection, adjust your goals so that it's hard to get rejected. Too many guys try and get the phone number, the date, or the quick romp in the sack. Instead, take baby steps and set your goal as just talking to the girl and carrying on a conversation. Use that as your measure of success. Remember, you're just learning the right way of doing things.

That's all!

This is a numbers game. The more women you talk to, the easier it is. See how many you can talk to in a day and keep trying to beat your score.

Finally, use a "time constraint" when approaching women. This is as simple as telling her you've only got a minute to talk to her because you've got to get back to your friends or whatever you're doing.

Time constraints let the girl you're talking to know that you're not trying to monopolize her time, and that this will be a quick conversation. Because of this, she'll be more willing to engage in your talk.

The beauty of this is that if the conversation picks up and is going well, she'll forget that you used a time constraint, and you can actually talk to her as long as you want. Using a good time constraint is just a way to make the approach easier in the beginning.

In the world of dating, it all boils down to a numbers game. The more women you meet, the better your chances of finding your soul mate.

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